Saturday, 20 February 2010
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Journey
By Journey
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"Okay folks," I said out loud. "You all got here before me." My eyes dart from side to side, then back to the front. Car 1, directly across from me is chatting to the air and applying something to her lips. "Cell phone and makeup" I mutter. Car 2 is pointing to the park with a small child peering out the window. "Distracted," I announce to my rear view mirror. There's no one coming up behind me. I hear myself breathing deeper to keep my shoulders from pushing the river of impatience. Car 3's driver is busy fishing for something over the back seat. You know what I mean. Maybe it's a multitasking woman thing, but this was a guy doing it so...He's facing forward but sort of twisted and his right arm is reaching to the back to snag something that he apparently needed right then. "Come on , you can doooooooo this," I said for him out of sympathy. All of this taking place within a few seconds, but I was very aware that I was the only one paying attention and the last to arrive. Surrender!
Another deep breath and I'm entertaining myself as I tap on my dash board like I'm the conductor of the road symphony and can direct their behavior from my car. "Go dear. Straight ahead and you can park and show the child the wonders of the swing." Car 2 pulled ahead through the intersection. "Good timing."
"And you?" I point to Car 3, who apparent has secured the item of need and has now reset himself in the vehicle. He puts it into gear and the car lurches into the intersection turning left and coming pass me. His eyes met mine and he smiled sort of innocently and whipped his hair back at the same time. I smiled back as I thought to myself, "You can't fool me kid. You've been driving for a whole two days, right?" You know the expression, It takes a village? It does indeed.
Car 1 is still chatting away and now fluffing her hair as she comes toward me. I could tell she was laughing as she tossed her head back with a face full of smile. "Yay you, you look great," I said under my breath. "My turn." I make my left turn and head toward home. I know we all have to show a bit more patience these days. Distractions of the physical world and the metal world are more than enough to keep us slightly off at times. It's so easy to cuss under our breaths and be impatient that the people who slow us down know nothing of us and our own plate of life. To this I offer up my conductor's baton. Go ahead. Direct the symphony if you're the one who's most aware. I think you'll find, like me, that the moments are more amusing and a lot less stressful. I suppose it's all how you look at it.
Have a wonderful weekend. Live Laugh Love...Conduct
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Comments (44)
holy frijole! i just got my baton from ebay!!! i am going to conduct myself into a frenzy!! Lyne, love your wisdom!!! those 4-way stops are ... sigh ... not for the weak of spirit are they?
How many times I've sat at that same 4-way stop and wanted to conduct! LOVE the photo!
it is hard to do this when you are being grazed by a large van when riding my bike...but I try...
That's why I love living in the country. I'm a poor conductor.
Takes a lot of self control to conduct instead of curse. Good for you! :) Good for them too, if only they knew!
@windupherskirt - They certainly are not. Conduct away, D! A one and a two and a...
@slmret - Thanks Janet. Yep. I'm trying to practice what I preach.
(taps on podium) 
@youandwhosearmy - Eeek! That's a tight one there, N. Wheels forward, eh? Have a wonderful weekend.
@Bricker59 -
I would sure love to hear your version of this one. (hands you a cold one and sits back to listen)
@guestbrief - I was the kid in elementary school who got the notes home that read: Needs more self control. I guess I'm finally "getting it."
@American_woman_USA - Thank you. You too.
LOL~ conductor of the road symphony. Love it! I think I need to have my sons carve me my own baton from one the twigs on the ground. Maybe then~ those distracted drivers would take direction. lol Not likely. But I love the thought.
I don't have a lot of patience with distracted drivers. They're risking lives while they're talking on the phone, texting, eating and changing CDs. *sigh*
@WildWomanOfTheWest - I think it's the thoughts that pull us through.
@WakeUpLaughing - I hear you loud and clear. I wonder if I could conduct the police to show up behind those peeps. The texters really scare me, because they're looking down. If I honk at them, they may just steer right into me or someone else. (signs too)
so zen, you are. : ) good for you!
j.
People seem so much more distracted and angry on the road. I can't think of anywhere I need to be that's worth that kind of stress. I leave my house early, happily pull over to let those who think the speed limit doesn't apply to them, and always let the other guy go first. My husband thinks I'm a wuss. I think that maybe letting someone go first might be the only thing that's going to go right for them that day. And maybe they'll be nicer on the ride home.
@speraquodvereor - Ommmmm.
@jacksoncroons - I figure I want them out in front of me so I can tell what the bigger picture is going to be. I agree. Let them pass on by, give them a smile and sometimes I send them a thought for higher learning.
The hubby and I met for lunch this afternoon. I parked next to him. When we left, he managed to pull out before I did. As I pulled out, I had to conduct my car to swerve, because Car Hungry decided that my husband's empty parking space was a lot more important than my safety! She nearly hit me, and then I would have been super ticked off, because I really just want to pay off my car and drive it till it dies on it's own accord. I have financial plans, and a wreck does not fit in any of them. Especially when it is caused by a distracted driver on a cell phone!
I was behind a woman this morning going 20 mph in a 35 zone. As I pulled up at a light I realized she was reading the newspaper!!! She was oblivious that she was creating a problem. After I was past her I looked behind to see a steady stream of cars passing her - some not so safely... I listen to the classical station and conduct when necessary. btw - Love the photo!
That a girl! Well done, and nice story.
@Carolina_Is_In_My_Mind - Keep your eyes keen and sharp for Car Hungrys coming toward you. They are everywhere.
@murisopsis - Thank you. I thought the photo depicted point of view in a cool way. Reading the newspaper? Where did she think she was and why was she behind the wheel of a car? Whoa Nellie! She must have car angels.
@cyberbear - (tips hat) Thank you! Have a great weekend.
@RestlessButterfly -
I think you and I could have a great deal of joy in a cross town drive. Maybe some Hendrix on the radio. "You're just like cross town traffic." Or maybe some Stevie Wynwood and Traffic. I think of you when "Glad" comes on.
I am glad you are here.
Old Hat
@My_HAT_is_older_than_you - Thank you Hat. I'm glad your glad and I'm glad too. I miss your road trips with me running alongside the truck trying to jump on.
(pats heart and points to you)
such a great photo!
@nattata - Thank you. The port hole shape caught my eye then as I moved the tree came into the shot. CLICK!