January 2, 2013
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For The Birds
The bird in the tree outside my window doesn't know that it's 2013. She just sings her song in my garden every day. She is safe there with cover to hide from the neighboring cats and bigger birds that would make a snack of her. She hops from branch to branch eating small findings as she moves along.
I whistle or chirp sometimes when I see a bird in the garden. I try to mimic their call. I probably freak them out as they hear the sound, then look my way and see the wingless bird on the ground. I wonder if they discuss me among themselves as they start chattering to each other. I never wanted to be a bird woman like in Mary Poppins: the woman covered with birds and looking happy as she sings to others to feed them for "Tuppence a bag". I don't want that many bird friends at a time, but I'm a big fan of songbirds hanging out and I do get excited when I see a new one, unfamiliar to me in my yard. A feathered gift.
Day 2 and 2013 is already urging me into nature. "Come tend to me", it calls. It's cold here on the coast and we're whimpy about it as we remove our flipflops and shorts and grab for sweaters and coats that spend more time in the closet than on our backs. I hunt through a basket that I swore had my gloves in it and has anyone seen that nice black scarf I got two years ago at Christmas? My job takes me into early morning gardens and I have to layer myself for the slow warming of the day. Sometimes by noon, I'm wishing I'd put the flipflops in the back of the car, but by 4pm, I know why I didn't.
This is our crazy weather time. Warm then cold, then warm, then rain. I have Lillies that are blooming or trying to bloom, roses that have no leaves, but beautiful buds that can't make up their minds about opening or rotting on the stem as it rains, warms up then gets down the the 40's to high 30's at night, then warms up again. Change is in the wind.
I was asking my son, College Dude if he had goals for this year. He wants to study in Italy, and he said that this year he was going to like who he was more. 19 years old and already thinking wisely. I told him that many people my age were just learning or easing into accepting themselves for who they/we are, so he has a big jump on the gift of self love. I think it brings us to a better space for everyday living as we think less of what others think of us and more about how we add ourselves into any given senario.
Anyway...back in the gardens I go and the birds chitter about my presence there. They hop or fly away, changing trees but keeping me in view as I move quietly through clipping, and weeding and cutting back so that Spring can think it was all her creation when it comes time to bloom again in March. I just trim as I go all year round and let mother nature call the shots, with a large tip from the weather. The birds put up with me in their space. I'm not a threat as they fly to the area I just weeded and pull tasty morsels from the moist open ground. They never leave in mass rather they watch from their perch in the trees waiting and chirping encouragment for me to keep on tending to their garden. They probably consider me part of the circle...a meal ticket so to speak.
Cold morning thoughts. Have a lovely day!
I work for many, some with feathers. It's a good thing.

(pats heart, and points to you)
Comments (19)
I bet they like there wingless human pet I talk to the critters outside tooI like to think they enjoy me
What a gorgeous rose!
@SisterMae - Me too.
@Pepin909 - It's a beauty, eh? The color is a gentle, creamy orange. Happy New Year!
I mock the cardinals ( probably the easiest birds to mimic ) and they answer back
my birds look forward to my working the soil, the robins especially come hopping along when I'm finished with their little heads turned ear down to the ground...Our weather is crazy too, it was warm this morning and I came to work without a jacket and no socks, I wish I had the socks on now! Happy New Year Dear! ilym
@mlbncsga - Why am I not surprised that you talk to the birds too?
How wonderful a life the birds live! Will comment more when I get home!
You paint an idyllic picture. I'd love a morning where all I needed was a scarf and a jacket... I'm really bundling up. This morning the wind chill made it feel like 9 degrees. Sending warm thoughts your way and hopes for buds that bloom.
I just had a conversation with my daughter this morning about the importance of loving yourself. I was going to blog about it, but after a late night, a bout of insomnia and an early morning I fell asleep in the middle of typing it. I haven't had the courage to look at what I wrote in my half-asleep state.
Orange and yellow roses are my favorites!
Lovely! Thanks... I'll trade ya:
http://hunt4truth.xanga.com/770774767/powerful-techniques-for-a-peaceful-mind/
Let me know if you like my offer. Thanks,
Hunt
@Hunt4Truth - Thank you. I do meditate. It's a wonder part of my life.
@murisopsis - I'm send YOU warmer thoughts. Brrrrrrr. "Button up that over coat B A B Y!"
@clayrek - Beautiful thoughts! Yes, they accept me in their garden and hope I keep working that soil for them. Wish I could bundle up and walk and hum with you Bear!
@saintvi - Courage, my friend. Write that blog. I'll be reading for advise.
Self love is a journey that we hope our children get to faster these days.
@slmret - Hi Janet. Hugs!
@Jaynebug - You may remember probably getting started.
Do you think that the morning (as written for a beginner) routine leaves anything out?
It came up from some young Xangans that have average self-esteem but
BIG dreams for success... S t r e s s.
If you have any comment; thanks! I am going to put in one for an afternoon break, a get home recharge and a shut down ready for bed. Any suggestions or criticism welcomed.
Thanks for looking at it.
Hunt
@Hunt4Truth - I do indeed. When I started meditating I struggled to get past the noise in my busy mind as I strained with my eyes closed to see something bigger than myself. Over time, you learn to let go, to trust in the process but the control issue was the biggest bump to get through so I could truly benefit from the meditation. I was advised to let the thoughts be passing clouds and then I counted the clouds.
I now can "go there" to that space of complete connection. Time invested in ourselves or self love can be the guide and I learn new things about that every day of the week, because it's part of who I am now. I honestly believe that the struggle of stress vesus calm is the way to the answer. We start to think about it and thus we change our thinking. That allows us to connect with our higher self and our body responds.
"I honestly believe that the struggle of stress vesus calm is the way to the answer."
FOR SURE
Thanks. I too remember having some difficulty with competing thoughts in the beginning.
If you have some time, I wonder if you'd post a comment saying how sticking with it helped you out and what it was like getting started.
THANKS!
@Jaynebug -
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